When they talk to me, I get nervous. And when I get nervous, I get angry as a defensive measure. Then my voice sounds like i'm angry when I try to talk back to them and my facial expression looks angry too. They think I hate them and want to be left alone, but I don't:(
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That's what we all are. Mammals.
It's normal to have physical changes when around attractive people, slight increase in blood pressure/heart rate, butterflies in the stomach, maybe sweaty palms. The issue occurs when you try to control/avoid these symptoms; if you want my advice i'd say just trust your body to do what it does naturally and dont try so hard to make it do something else: then you'll find yourself moving from that excited visceral state into a relaxed sensual state
I used to have the same problem and still struggle with it from time to time since I am sensitive to my internal workings; the best thing to do is to just let go.