In my day to day life I don't encounter homosexuals apart from totse users, I don't think I have met many faggots IRL. I do recall having e-mail chat with DaGuru but I am sure he was trying to keep everything professional. What I want to know is; how do you find out if the person standing next to you is a fag or a closet fag.
Recently I met someone and for some reason my gaydar is going haywire for some reason, the person in question isn't from Pakistan and he lived much of his life outside. Plus, he is a bit fat and clean shaved and his hair reminds me of countless emo's I see on youtube. Think Freakangle or something ( I mean the hair color is uniform throughout but the style is ..)
Anyway, it would be nice to hear your observations. Bonus points for details and real life experiences. Also, adding some location wouldn't hurt.