i havent seen her in 18 months, im super excited. our parents couldn't stay out of trouble so she pretty much raised me, never let us get separated in foster care and what not. i got her a job at a yoga studio and i have her a room ready. she did this same thing for me when i got out of prison, idk im just excited to have her home. its gonna be good to have someone im related in this world well i have my kids and her son. but not a adult family member besides my gf.