Ok so I need to bump my "bump when you had sex" thread but I'm in a real dilemma.
My ex was a fucking freak in the sack. Imagine the dirtiest girl and add more to it. Get the picture? Yeah. Well since we broke up which was a rather drawn-out process, I've had some severe issues.
Ok well to keep it short and to the point, it's actually an effort to get it up and keep it. I can only get a twitch if some girl knows how to press my buttons and halfway through I'm just not interested. The anxiety and related reminds me of my opiate days where I'd be so fucked I couldn't get a hard on and therefore the anxiety would make it a vicious circle.
Short of talking to a Doctor which I think is a tad embarrasing for my age, what the hell can I do? Maybe it's all my exposure to the most hardcore of hardcore stuff (everything minus scat and watersports) and feeling like I've burnt out before my time.
But in a way, at least it keeps me sane. No woman ties or troubles.