So, I dated this guy a while ago, we will call him Tom. Tom then dated Sarah. They broke up, and now Tom is with Lucy.
All of us are really close friends have have been throughout that entire length of time.
Now, the other night I hooked up with Sarah. This is odd for me, as I'm gay, but I'm trying it out anyway.
Sarah and I are doing the ol' friends with benefits dealio, which is pretty fucking sweet, but I'm concerned about how Tom is taking this.
Tom seemed really,really upset by this, and I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to approach this situation....
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Takes one to know one
wait what?
Was hoping you would tell...
I couldn't tell you. See unlike OP I never woke up one day and decided "you know what I'll just try a cock today".
Because you were already born that way.
You can't be born gay.
Apparently you were.
I'm going to kill Brock Lesnar
Don't blame the revelation of the truth on others.
if whoever is doing the deed is a guy and you know this then yes it makes you gay. just for such poor judgment you now have aids of the brain.
na. only if you have the dick in your mouth and balls slapping your chin.
Unless your in prison and havent seen a woman in 35 years then yes. Yes it does. It is also my duty to inform you that because of this you will go to hell.:p
hahaha all the gay bjs you want there:fap:
This made me choke on my red beer. Good one.
Gays are born gay.
Anyway, all you need to do is tell him to stop being so butthurt (lol). If he wanted to be with you he shouldn't have gone off to fuck a girl. Tell him you're single and free to fuck whomever you want.
hey, maybe the desecrate koran thread might eventuate?
Fixed:o
Tom seemed okay last night when we all chilled, however, I have to say it's outright bizzare to be with someone that you fundementally can't be attracted to. Like, I still get off an everything, but you know how when you're with someone you get a weird sort of burn in the chest? I get none of that whatsoever, it's almost masturbatory...very, very odd.
Having said that, sex is sex regardless and she seems as fine as I am with just banging a lot and waiting for the right people to come along for us...ah life, you're really, really weird.
You're young, bi. and having fun. Don't sweat the details.
fixed.
Also, I think being gay is a choice as well.
We all think gay thoughts regardless of how straight we are (intentionally/unintentionally) We are given the choice to act upon them or not. Gay people choose to act upon there thoughts.
We also think murderous/rape thoughts as well and if we act on these thoughts, then we are murderers/rapists.
you think? :facepalm:
THEIR thoughts.
It's called the gay gene.