Does masturbating make you pessimistic?
BitterConflict
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For the past couple of weeks, I've been overwhelmed with college work. So, I haven't had time to go on the internet and watch porn. Also, I haven't fapped for about a week or two. During the time I didn't fap, I felt more optimistic. I was a bit more upbeat than usual and I just made happy decisions throughout my week. I actually felt like talking to girls during the time I didn't fap. It felt kind of odd, because when I came home about a couple hours ago, I fapped furiously to pr0n and now I feel like shit. My mood completely downshifted immediately. This happened to me a couple of times. I'm naturally a pessimist, but now I'm going to try this a couple more times to see how my mind reacts to this. 
What about you?
What about you?
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I avoid fapping as much as possible but some times you just can't hold back.
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I avoid fapping as much as possible but some times you just can't hold back.
Easy to avoid fapping when you have willing camels huh?:mad:
Camels are moody and raping them uses too much lube.
Yet you still raep them.
The whole point of prolactin is to keep us from being dopamine fiends and fucking 24/7 and then not going to look for food
You shouldn't take that shit. Make her suck you off and like it or tell her too GTFO.
this^ , is why he should be prez.
OKAY, i do believe that there some proven side affects to masturbation. it can alter your view of the opposite sex(objectification). i once heard there was a CHEMICAL change in the brain for people who masturbate ALLOT. i don't know how much allot is. i find that sex is better when i don't masturbate, and that i feel more confident or "driven around girls when i refrain from slapping the wiener around. i also have found that when i am really depressed my wanking off goes through the roof.:facepalm:
That's it. Before you cum, there is a high level of Dopamine in your brain which makes you feel great. As soon as you reach an orgasm, Prolactin is released which counteracts the Dopamine and makes you feel tired, unwilling to have sex, and unmotivated. This chemical can actually stay inside you for around 2 weeks, which might explain your pessimism.
At least, I think that's how it works.
Like fish in a barrel, man.
But I've also heard about people who feel guilty or sad after an orgasm, and sometimes they cry. You must be one of those people. I think there's a name for it actually. In psychological terms, I mean.
I did tell her that, and she did it. Need to train her to swallow after.
For real bro. Fuck her, tell her straight if she won't give you'll find it else where. For a long time I was like you and then I cheated, grew aome stones and snapped at my girl that sounds a lot like yours.
Before I tried to bring up the topic quite often but she always threw the "is sex all you need me for?" for line. So I felt bad and backed down.
Eventually I told her, I'm a man, Im still young I NEED sex, wild sex, anal sex, oral sex. I need it all and she just can't fufill my needs sexually, and it's not everything, but it's a large part... She started sucking me off more often, agreed to try anal and our sex life became waaaay better