Out of all the friends I have, exactly 3 came to see me when I was in hospital, getting a heart operation and cancer chemotherapy.
Should I lose all the friends who couldn't be bothered their arse coming to see me? What would be a suitable punishment?
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Treat them as "Associates" and "Acquantinces". Obviously the first is closer to someone you can call a friend than the other. If you treat it like a business relationship you aren't going to let them get close enough to you to be affected by anything they do or don't do.
I condem friendships because out of all my years they ALL end up stabbing you in the back and often times become a worse enemy than someone who you didn't become a friend with and despised. All the closest people I got to know as "near friends" were people I originally hated, fought, and ended up liking them.
Normal.
qft
"Friends are just people you fuck over more than they fuck you."
As long as you get something from them, emotionally or physically, and don't feel as if you're losing more than that's worth, suck them dry.
But another friend i had for 20 years let me fuck his old lady once cuz i was really depressed.
Guess who has my friendship