Urgh. So frustrating. >.<
So if you saw my thread about that "shy guy" the other day, I may have mentioned that his friend was the one trying to get us together. Well, things are going swimmingly for me and this guy, but the friend is seriously just getting in the way more than helping at this point.
His friend is bent on changing me into a "decent person", for whatever reason, and has basically gotten to the point he's just insulting me constantly... it reminds me of being bullied in elementary school. =/ It's annoying. And doesn't help much.
It's more a hindrance than a help at this point, so any advice on how to get him to back off?
I mean, I've tried telling him to, but it doesn't work...
So anything I can do?
Or should I just give up and move on?
Has anyone ever had a similar issue?
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I don't see how that has anything to do with anything I mentioned in this thread. O.O
Somehow, that kind of shit just doesn't work. He's got a seriously narcissistic personality, he seems to think he's God or something, and that I'm too stupid or whatever to know what's best for me. >.<
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This is what you should do. Ground pound that nigga.
maybe its that. why dont you just make plans to hang out with 'shy guy' alone?
I do. But this guy still like bugs the crap out of me on IM, about it. It's just like... frustrating.
:o:o:o:o
For once you actually make a good point. By on my own, I sort of meant without some narcissistic gay midget getting all up in my business all the time. I don't want to hurt him... but I will if I have to.
Aw, I'm glad I'm important enough to warrant someone wasting the kind of energy it takes to hate on me. Thanks. ^_^
I HATE YOU BONER KILLING BITCH:mad::mad:
Maybe you should try tellin' shyguy about that faggot buddy o' his. If shyguy is only shy around you, I bet it'd end the tirade of bullshit quicklike.
Why don't you just block him?
It's that simple; ignore his ass.
What happened to be nice until I was mean to you? XD
But there are clearly guys who disagree, and well, the second part isn't my issue, it's yours. So sorry.
Because he'll end up calling my house or something, I'm sure... I'd rather not deal with that...
oh... right. my bad.
So?
Big deal.
Just say "Uhm I'm kinda busy can't talk." and hang up. He'll get the message eventually.
You sound like the kind of girl that would stay with an abusive boyfriend because you'd "rather not deal with that". Or have sex with a guy because if you say "no" he may get angry and you'd "rather not deal with that".
I mean come on, don't be so weak.
I've gotten out of bad relationships and things like that before. I just kind of don't wanna be rude to this guy because I think he means well, and if I end up going out with his friend we might end up seeing each other a lot, so it's not like I can block him from my life...
His problem not yours.
He is the one at fault here, after all.
Tell him to deal with it. It's your life, and if you want to go out with his friend, then do that. He'll need to get over it at some point, and the earlier you start the better.