I saw City of God. It's really an excellent movie. Edit: I'd like to see "The Skin I Live In", but it doesn't seem to be out on torrents yet. Any other suggestions?
They still have their place though. I still enjoy the older one's when I get a chance to see them. I'd have to say I enjoy Tom and Jerry better though.
I think if you were both willing to get jobs, you'd have the money in no time. You said you don't want to abandon him, but it seems like you're pulling all the weight.