Why are girls interested when I ignore them

TSAoDTSAoD Regular
edited February 2011 in Life
When I ignore a girl, not completely ignore but give minimum notice to, they are persistent at getting attention from me. They act interested, being nice as if they like me.

Months go by when finally I give her the time of day, she soon becomes uninterested, then often goes after someone else.

It's not really an issue since I never cared though it has happened multiple times now.

What you guys think the reason behind this is?

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  • MooseKnuckleMooseKnuckle Regular
    edited February 2011
    girls want what they can't have.
  • RogueEagle91RogueEagle91 Regular
    edited February 2011
    girls want what they can't have.

    This.

    You have to balance interest with disinterest to land one.

    It's hard to truly explain. Just comes with experience.
  • JestAJestA Regular
    edited February 2011
    its because when you ignore her you turn your head and she can't see your face and when you try to make contact she can see your face.
  • GrinchGrinch Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    What you guys think the reason behind this is?

    Your personality ruins the fantasy they conjured up in their heads.
  • Rumple ForeskinRumple Foreskin Regular
    edited February 2011
    JestA wrote: »
    its because when you ignore her you turn your head and she can't see your face and when you try to make contact she can see your face.

    what the fuck? :confused::confused::confused:
  • JestAJestA Regular
    edited February 2011
    what the fuck? :confused::confused::confused:

    Basicaly saying his face is ugly. only joking of course. but no in all seriousness you have to ignor her but slowly talk to her and stop ignoring her. over the course of id say about 3 months tops.
  • DailyDaily Regular
    edited February 2011
    Grinch wrote: »
    Your personality ruins the fantasy they conjured up in their heads.

    Considering who the OP is, this is a definite candidate answer.
  • TSAoDTSAoD Regular
    edited February 2011
    Grinch wrote: »
    Your personality ruins the fantasy they conjured up in their heads.

    Explain?
    Daily wrote: »
    Considering who the OP is, this is a definite candidate answer.

    You don't know who I am or anything about me.
  • jhthrnjhthrn Semo-Regulars
    edited February 2011
    There is the attention craving part, but also some girls just feel assured that you're not an obsessive clingy stalker type if you ignore them. They don't want clingy because they don't want to be stuck with the same guy forever. They know relationships are rarely permanently happy and usually end eventually. And it's like different flavors of ice cream, girls don't just want one flavor. They want to try a lot. Yes, most girls are sluts and most relationships fail.

    Try not to ever get too attached, know any relationship can end, she can die in a car crash or whatever, or you may just stop getting along one day.
  • jhthrnjhthrn Semo-Regulars
    edited February 2011
    Most girls want space, don't want to be smothered with too much love or affection. Try being friends with them before dating. Be friends for half a year at least, ideally.
  • MooseKnuckleMooseKnuckle Regular
    edited February 2011
    jhthrn wrote: »
    Most girls want space, don't want to be smothered with too much love or affection. Try being friends with them before dating. Be friends for half a year at least, ideally.

    who wants to be in friendzone? most guys don't
  • RogueEagle91RogueEagle91 Regular
    edited February 2011
    who wants to be in friendzone? most guys don't

    No shit. Friendzone is the ultimate bitch slap to any attempt you will ever make towards a relationship. Sure, you can get out of it. It takes far less work to never land yourself there in the first place.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited February 2011
    your the gay dude every chic wants to be friends with.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited February 2011
    lol. faggot
  • jhthrnjhthrn Semo-Regulars
    edited February 2011
    who wants to be in friendzone? most guys don't
    Don't worry about zones. If all you want is to get laid, that's what you'll get. Makes you sound like a nigger though, saying "friendzone"
  • MooseKnuckleMooseKnuckle Regular
    edited February 2011
    if all you want to do is get laid, make intent known and follow through. not this friend shit. i am a nigger. :o
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited February 2011
    if all you want to do is get laid,

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    and your a nigger?
  • blindbatblindbat Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    When I ignore a girl, not completely ignore but give minimum notice to, they are persistent at getting attention from me. They act interested, being nice as if they like me.

    Months go by when finally I give her the time of day, she soon becomes uninterested, then often goes after someone else.

    It's not really an issue since I never cared though it has happened multiple times now.

    What you guys think the reason behind this is?

    because they're all whores.
  • MooseKnuckleMooseKnuckle Regular
    edited February 2011
    women love attention as much as trolls. :hai:
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited February 2011
    trolls Love attention as much as women. :o
  • GrinchGrinch Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    Explain?

    More or less this.
    You have to balance interest with disinterest to land one.

    Going months with paying minor attention or simply hinting at interest can only continue to be intriguing for so long.

    If enough time passes and the only topics brought up are concerning trivial matters and the weather, she is going to realize that you were just being shy or didn't know what to say in comparison to some freestanding "mysterious persona".

    I suppose an inadequate way to put it would be to let her know that their exists the potential for her to be an asset to your life, whether or not that she becomes involved is entirely your prerogative.
  • TSAoDTSAoD Regular
    edited February 2011
  • MarijuanasaurusMarijuanasaurus Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    No offense but I don't think you get it.

    It probably has something to do with the fact that theyre intrigued by your aloofness, hence, giving you the time of day, but when you actually pursue these girls and let them get to know your personality, they find out that youre just a piece of shit.

    Try being a better person and these girls will like you whether you ignore them or not.
  • MarijuanasaurusMarijuanasaurus Regular
    edited February 2011
    Grinch wrote: »
    Your personality ruins the fantasy they conjured up in their heads.

    Oh dear me, I just repeated what most people already said in this thread.
  • MarijuanasaurusMarijuanasaurus Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    Really? :( What can I do to put an end to this?

    I can go ahead and give you generic advice and tell you to be cocky and funny, but you probably dont know how to do that.

    I can give you a push in the right direction, but its up to you to actually do something.

    Most people will shun the word PUA, but within it are core principles observed when attracting a woman. Try reading some things online about this topic and eventually youll see what youre doing wrong.
  • MarijuanasaurusMarijuanasaurus Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »
    To put it into terms I'm inherently socially inept. Also in my opinion dating comes entirely down to Alpha/Beta male tendencies.

    Elaborate. On both parts.
  • thewandererthewanderer Regular
    edited February 2011
    TSAoD wrote: »

    To put it into terms I'm inherently socially inept.

    Aren't you claiming to be a former celebrity in another thread? How the fuck do you become famous if you're socially inept?
    Please, enlighten me.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited February 2011
    thats the thing, he is no celeb.

    just a little bitch.
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