When I ignore a girl, not completely ignore but give minimum notice to, they are persistent at getting attention from me. They act interested, being nice as if they like me.
Months go by when finally I give her the time of day, she soon becomes uninterested, then often goes after someone else.
It's not really an issue since I never cared though it has happened multiple times now.
What you guys think the reason behind this is?
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This.
You have to balance interest with disinterest to land one.
It's hard to truly explain. Just comes with experience.
Your personality ruins the fantasy they conjured up in their heads.
what the fuck?
Basicaly saying his face is ugly. only joking of course. but no in all seriousness you have to ignor her but slowly talk to her and stop ignoring her. over the course of id say about 3 months tops.
Considering who the OP is, this is a definite candidate answer.
Explain?
You don't know who I am or anything about me.
Try not to ever get too attached, know any relationship can end, she can die in a car crash or whatever, or you may just stop getting along one day.
who wants to be in friendzone? most guys don't
No shit. Friendzone is the ultimate bitch slap to any attempt you will ever make towards a relationship. Sure, you can get out of it. It takes far less work to never land yourself there in the first place.
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and your a nigger?
because they're all whores.
More or less this.
Going months with paying minor attention or simply hinting at interest can only continue to be intriguing for so long.
If enough time passes and the only topics brought up are concerning trivial matters and the weather, she is going to realize that you were just being shy or didn't know what to say in comparison to some freestanding "mysterious persona".
I suppose an inadequate way to put it would be to let her know that their exists the potential for her to be an asset to your life, whether or not that she becomes involved is entirely your prerogative.
No offense but I don't think you get it.
It probably has something to do with the fact that theyre intrigued by your aloofness, hence, giving you the time of day, but when you actually pursue these girls and let them get to know your personality, they find out that youre just a piece of shit.
Try being a better person and these girls will like you whether you ignore them or not.
Oh dear me, I just repeated what most people already said in this thread.
I can go ahead and give you generic advice and tell you to be cocky and funny, but you probably dont know how to do that.
I can give you a push in the right direction, but its up to you to actually do something.
Most people will shun the word PUA, but within it are core principles observed when attracting a woman. Try reading some things online about this topic and eventually youll see what youre doing wrong.
Elaborate. On both parts.
Aren't you claiming to be a former celebrity in another thread? How the fuck do you become famous if you're socially inept?
Please, enlighten me.
just a little bitch.